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The Other Side of Infidelity | Dr. Kevin Skinner | TEDxRiverton



http://tedxriverton.com – Have you or someone close to you experienced infidelity? Infidelity is not going to go away, Dr. Kevin Skinner poses the question, will we rise up as a society and help those suffering from the trauma of sexual betrayal? Dr. Kevin Skinner is a recognized leader and authority on sexually compulsive behavior, infidelity and trauma from sexual betrayal. He’s a core faculty member of IITAP (The International Institute of Addiction and Trauma Professionals-https://www.iitap.com/about/) and Clinical Director and Co-Founder of Addo Recovery (addorecovery.com), a nationally sought out therapy brand that helps individuals and family with sexually compulsive behavior, infidelity and sexual trauma. In addition, he’s the Clinical Director and Co-Founder of Bloom for Women (bloomforwomen.com), a global online community of thousands of women with sexual trauma, spanning over 15 countries. In addition, Dr. Skinner has Co-Founded Discover and Change, an assessment platform providing assessments specifically to those struggling with sexual trauma, sexually compulsive behavior and relationships. Dr. Skinner’s treatment is based on his own research stemming from more than 250,000 assessments and over 20 years experience. He’s spent the last 15 years researching how sexual betrayal creates PTSD-like symptoms in the betrayed spouse. His latest research has exposed the traumatic impact that sexual harassment from those close to the individuals, the workplace and society has on individuals. Dr. Skinner is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, holds a PhD, and is a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist and Supervisor (CSAT-S). He also is trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Dr. Skinner has authored, Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal and Treating Pornography Addiction: The Essential Tools for Recovery. Currently, Dr. Kevin Skinner trains therapists from all over the world in Sexual Trauma. In 2017 alone he’s trained hundreds of therapists throughout Europe and the United States. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

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  7. Welcome to my world.
    I felt victim shaming from 8 out of 10 of the different kinds of therapists I’ve been consulting.
    This ted talk is even an understatement of what I’ve experienced and am experiencing.
    Many many PTSD symptoms here. I’ve never been to war.
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  8. This is so enlightening. We all tend to have similar responses to infidelity and betrayal yet can’t seem to help eachother as much as you would think due to embarrassment and shame.

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  14. Betrayal is a fact of life and it has happened to me several times in my life, with girlfriends and at the end of a marriage. There are too many snowflakes watching these. Yes, it's hard and it hurts and it takes time to recover but there was always a reason and it involved you both. Infidelity is not just abuse or some form of emotional attack, it is the symptom of something very wrong in the relationship that was not fixable.

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  20. Very informative and emotionally detailed. However, having said that Dr. Skinner did not mention the causes of why infidelity occurs. The cause or causes are of paramount importance because that would explain why infidelity takes place. As someone who has lived in South East Asia for almost twenty years and becoming very familiar with Asian culture this presentation albeit well researched would not garner much of a reaction among Asians. Basically what I’m trying to say is Dr. Skinner is coming from a western culture mindset while our brothers and sisters from the Far East come from a different culture where infidelity is tolerated and in some cases encouraged. What I will say though, if an Asian man does stray from the wife, it is always done with the utmost discretion as to no one losing face. I could continue but I don’t want to be long winded. Just my comments from someone who has lived on both continents.

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